How many of us would nearly kill to go back in time and warn—or inform—our younger selves about the things we wish we knew before …
What Would You Say to Your 20-Year-Old Self?
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How to Avoid Post-Divorce Triggers
Everyone talks about how difficult divorce is, but we rarely hear about the nuanced triggers we face in those first one or two years after …
Post-Divorce Fears. How Can We Replace Lies with Truth?
Have you ever been minding your own business—sudsing in the shower or doing the dishes—when BAM! Out of nowhere, the most insidious thought invades your …
Latest Episode! “Coparenting With The Ex. Will It Ever Get Better?”
This week, Jess and I spill the tea on the wild, unexpected struggles of coparenting after divorce. From awkward run-ins with the ex’s new girlfriend, …
I Finally Started a Podcast. What Quasi-Delusional Dream Are You Sitting On?
My friend and I finally started a podcast this week. Now, I fully realize with 700,000 active podcasters in US, we’re falling in rank with …
The Painful Art of Self-Forgiveness
For the past few years, up until recently, I’ve been plagued by negative flashbacks. They were like these unpredictable mental assaults firing memories of things …
Why Your Ugly Past Is Also Your Present
I bet if most of us had to choose a woman in the Bible we most look up to, it’d likely be the ever-loyal Ruth, …
In Pain Right Now? Don’t Waste It
No one likes to think about it, but after making bad choices, falling into sin, or ignoring God’s leading there are always consequences amidst the …
Girl Code. Why We Need It, And Why It Will Never Go Away
There are lots of unwritten, social codes in life that most of us adopt through shared life experience. There’s “co-worker code,” prompting us to text …
How To Strengthen Your Own Soul (When No One Else Will)
I’ve been gifted with such amazing friendships through life. With a batch full of breakups and a divorce under my belt, romantic relationships might not …